Some emails have come from women who have been “involved” with these men for months, sometimes even years. It doesn’t matter how good the sex he gets from you is either. You see all these words and feelings he describes to you are just as much fantasy to him as they are to you. I’m sorry if that sounds harsh, but someone needs to make you women see what’s really going on in this situation.
I have to agree with the ladies who posted before me. I agree 100% with David, but that's only for women that want to be in a relationship with a married man.
Hope you can remember and "learn" from the experience when your hubby is "catting" around when you got two of his little kids running around your skirt hem and are late again for the job outside the home you have to keep his precious family going:(. *ohhhhh my wife/girflfriend beat me/is a horrible witch* etc. I was merely a catalyst for their sick, weird ways..for them to fall back in love together.i think it would make all the difference in the world if people start thinking about how to treat others in the exact same manner they want to be treated.
Geez-why don't you go read a self-help book or volunteer instead of "expanding your horizons" at someone else's cost. My guy lead me to believe he was a victim of physical and emotional abuse..he wanted out---was terrorized by her, etc. imagine that person's pain, regardless of the misery of the marriage - how painful is it not for that woman to have her husband be sleeping around.
sure, he might still do it with someone else, but the change has to start somewhere and we can only take responsibility for ourselves.
and sure she might be a bitch and whatnot, why the marriage is falling apart; but i don't think that's anyone but that couple's business as long as they are together.